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The paperback edition of the huge national best–seller in which Dr. Laura Schlessinger–still America's top radio talk show host–gives advice on how women can make their marriage thrive after the wedding bliss subsides.
In her most provocative book yet, Dr. Laura urgently reminds women that to take proper care of their husbands is to ensure themselves the happiness and satisfaction they yearn for in marriage.
Women want to be in love, get married and live happily ever after. Yet disrespect for men and disregard for the value, feelings, and needs of husbands has fast become the standard for male–female relations in America. Those two attitudes clash in unfortunate ways to create struggle and strife in what could be a beautiful relationship.
Countless women call Dr. Laura, unhappy in their marriages and seemingly at a loss to understand the incredible power they have over their men to create the kind of home life they yearn for.
Dr. Laura's simple principles have changed the lives of millions. Now they can change yours.
THE PROPER CARE AND FEEDING OF HUSBANDS have salvaged and revitalized innumerable strained, stagnant, boring, disappointing, annoying, frustrating, and even seemingly dead marriages. I have had women calling almost daily, bitterly criticizing their men, reporting months of seemingly useless martial therapy (aka "gripe hours"), and at their wit's end about what to do with their marriages. After I ask (well, really, nag) them to try just one of the hints found in this book, they call me back amazed at the positive results in their feelings about their men, their husbands' demeanor, and the atmosphere in the home.
Customer Reviews:
No Nonsense Sense.......2007-06-08
Dr. Laura always shoots the straight goods & this book is no exception to her track record. She's not intending to solve all the world's problems, but she does speak directly to the heart of MANY problems our American families struggle with in today's culture. Proper Care is a practical, kick-butt, inspiring book that ANY woman would benefit from. It's also a great gift book!
The biggest issue.......2007-05-29
We find in relationships when we have problems that respect is really the biggest issue. Dr. Laura's book " The Proper Care and feeding of husbands" is a mind changing book. Dr. Laura is an in your face kind of gal. When I was in highschool I was first introduced to her by my Latin teacher during a free-period when I helped grade tests, and papers. I was shocked as I had never heard anyhting like her radio show...a strong woman...I was amazed.
I came to read this book years later when I was struggling with a relationship. Everything in this book clicked with me. When you're in a bad way in a relationship- as much as you want it to be right- you create your own barrier most times. It taught me to be respectful, gratuitous, and to remember the hard work that every person commits to the relationship. Instead of nagging about what you don't like- cut some slack and appreciate what you do like.
Dr. Laura also addressed the issue of insecurity. She made me realize that part of why I was not happy with my significant other was because I was not happy with myself. That alone gave me the courage to do what I needed to do for me. It's a book about respecting the ones you love, and respecting yourself.
Have an open mind & it makes sense.......2007-05-27
If you're worried about slipping decades back in the feminist movement by following Dr. Laura's advice, then you'll probably skip right past the common sense advice. Dr. Laura promotes celebrating the differences between husbands and wives. Generation X and all that came after have been brain washed into thinking that there is something wrong with being a woman. This book points out the beauty of how men and women can compliment each other. Men have their roles - they are men. Women have their roles - which are no less valuable to the world or marriage - they are women. This book can truly change your marriage.
Common Sense.......2007-05-11
This book is not as bad as some people have reviewed it to be. Although, I found a lot of the content to be common sense. You know...mutual respect, making the other person in the relationship feel wanted and needed. Plus, it implies that if you follow all this advice, your husband will be putty in your hands. I gave it a shot and did not really see any difference.
This will help your marriage!.......2007-04-28
This book has helped our marriage in more ways than one. Our relationship, our parenting, our intimacy, our friendship. This book was exactly what I needed!
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- Interesting premise, not so good story.
- The Husband, A Very Determined Man, with an undetermined ending...
- One of Koontz's best
- first ever let down
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With each and every new novel, Dean Koontz raises the stakes—and the pulse rate—higher than any other author. Now, in what may be his most suspenseful and heartfelt novel ever, he brings us the story of an ordinary man whose extraordinary commitment to his wife will take him on a harrowing journey of adventure, sacrifice, and redemption to the mystery of love itself—and to a showdown with the darkness that would destroy it forever.
What would you do for love? Would you die? Would you kill?
We have your wife. You can get her back for two million cash. Landscaper Mitchell Rafferty thinks it must be some kind of joke. He was in the middle of planting impatiens in the yard of one of his clients when his cell phone rang. Now he’s standing in a normal suburban neighborhood on a bright summer day, having a phone conversation out of his darkest nightmare.
Whoever is on the other end of the line is dead serious. He has Mitch’s wife and he’s named the price for her safe return. The caller doesn’t care that Mitch runs a small two-man landscaping operation and has no way of raising such a vast sum. He’s confident that Mitch will find a way.
If he loves his wife enough. . . Mitch does love her enough. He loves her more than life itself. He’s got seventy-two hours to prove it. He has to find the two million by then. But he’ll pay a lot more. He’ll pay anything.
From its tense opening to its shattering climax,
The Husband is a thriller that will hold you in its relentless grip for every twist, every shock, every revelation…until it lets you go, unmistakably changed. This is a Dean Koontz novel, after all. And there’s no other experience quite like it.
Customer Reviews:
Interesting premise, not so good story........2007-09-27
The premise is definately better than the story on this one. What would you do to get 2 million dollars? Kill(innocent people), steal(from a bank, friends, loved ones), he didn't do these things. The story lacked the drasticness the premise provided. Nevertheless, this is the book that got me started on Dean Koontz's novels or should I say the premise that got me started. I suggest Odd Thomas, Frankenstein, and Hideaway for now.
The Husband, A Very Determined Man, with an undetermined ending..........2007-09-24
The Husband by Dean Koontz was a fast paced book (in the beginning) with lots of twists and turns that kept me turning the pages. The dog walker that is killed before his eyes, all of the little scenes that were set up for him in case he didn't keep his part of the deal with the ransom, and even his no good brother Anson. Unfortunately, as the story winds down to the last minute, it just flat out unravels. It left me with a big question mark at the end. I believe that the story could have ended in a more exciting way...the same way that Mr. Koontz has carried us throughout the entire novel.
I would read more books by him, although not my particular genre, I would give him another try. So the next one had better be good.
One of Koontz's best.......2007-09-18
I loved this book. To say its a quick read is an understatement. You find yourself turning page after page because you just have to see what happens next. I personally think this is one of his best works in recent memory and would recommend this book to anyone. Even someone that usually has a short attention span would like this book because it keeps your interest. Do yourself a favor and get this book along with his other new release The Good Guy and enjoy! They are both top notch.
first ever let down.......2007-09-11
I have to say that this is the first Koontz book I have ever failed to finish. I'm going on vacation soon; I plan to drink all night, everynight. Maybe this will provide the inspiration to finish the story. I love his stories enough to suspend my disbelief long enough to finish and appreciate them. With this one it was impossible. Could be that he is being pushed to author too many books within a certain period of time. He is getting old, after all. The more he writes before he is incapable the more his publisher and his estate benefit; though it is difficult to pigeon-hole Koontz as a money grabber.
I love his stories so I won't post details of my disappointment, I don't wish to spar with legions of my own, fellow fans. I hope he gets an eye on this, decides to put his foot down, get through his current contractual obligations(I am not a tree hugging anarchist, I expect him to follow through on his contracts), and settle into his usual, incredible, and thoroughly entertaining stories.
Close to 4 stars, but too many unfinished bunny trails.......2007-09-08
This was recommended by a co-worker. I loved the storyline and most of the character development. There were several odd bunny trails that were left hanging after the end. That was a bit distracting. Overall a good read, that kept my interest.
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Wholeness and Healing for Women Caught in the Crossfire.
As the wife of a man who is addicted to lust, pornography, or masturbation, you are not alone. Millions of men can’t get through the day or the week without clicking on to their favorite Internet porn sites, thumbing through adult magazines, or watching sensual videos–and millions of wives suffer as a result.
Over the past decade, nearly 400,000 men have found inspiration and hope in Every Man’s Battle, the best-selling men’s guide to victory over sexual sin. Now, here at last is the book for every woman who has become a casualty in the fight for sexual purity. Every Heart Restored offers godly guidance and wisdom for a woman facing such personal betrayal.
“WHAT DOES GOD EXPECT FROM ME?”
“HOW CAN I TRUST AGAIN?”
“IS IT POSSIBLE TO OVERCOME PAIN AND UNFORGIVENESS?”
“CAN MY MARRIAGE BE REBUILT?”
“WHAT IF I JUST WANT OUT?”
Filled with stories from wives and husbands at every stage in the struggle for sexual purity, Every Heart Restored addresses the questions and real-life issues that matter to you most. Whether you are facing the startling new revelation of your husband’s sin, dealing with a long-term problem, or cleaning out an old wound, Every Heart Restored will meet you where you are and guide you to healing greater than you imagine possible.
Also available: Every Heart Restored Workbook
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Deceptive Title.......2007-07-14
If you've just been hit with the revelation of your husband's "secret life", this book may not help. The title is deceptive because it implies that you will be healed after reading it.(Healing is God's job!) I was frustrated with the first few chapters, because it dealt with man's sexuality rather than the wife's torment. My raw agony was nowhere to be found within the pages of this book. However, this book was still useful. Overall, the book was all right.
There were nuggets of practical advice and hope. I liked the way views from both wives and husbands were presented. The most important thing I learned was that it is possible for a husband to love his wife and still sin against her. I don't understand it or like it, but I believe it and this book does a good job of introducing that concept. I also learned a lot about the importance of a Christian wife's role of encouraging her husband spiritually. I liked Fred's description about how Brenda influenced him by lovingly refusing to accept anything less than righteousness from him. I also liked Brenda's attitude that her destiny is forever entwined with Fred's and that when one sins it pollutes the stream for both of them.
If you are in deep pain right now, understand that healing will take lots of time and lots of God. This book won't fix you or your marriage, but it can give you some insight and encouragement. For biblical healing, I strongly recommend "Lord Heal My Hurts" by Kay Arthur.
Great book.......2007-06-29
I'm half-way through it. So far, it is a really great book w/ super insight. I highly recommend it. Best description for this book would be "lifechanging".
WHAT A GREAT BOOK! .......2007-02-23
This is an outstanding book. This addresses a very real problem and does it in terms we can all understand. It is an easy read and includes enough actual stories from actual people to cross the bounds of "it could never happen to us" Thanks Fred and Brenda!
You are NOT alone!.......2006-09-02
This book has helped me realize that I am not alone and that it is completely NORMAL to have these types of feelings.
Women share their personal stories and feelings in this book. Wisdom is handed out to help you make your own decisions.
One word of caution...personally, it kind of fueled my fire in a way...not sure how to describe it, but it almost gave me more bullets against my husband.
It's not a feel good read by any means, but it is a should read.
Realistic and helpful steps to restoration.......2006-08-27
Understanding why your spouse was stupid enough to become entangled in the porno web is one thing; forgiving him and restoring your relationship is quite another. This book lays it all bare and gives practical counsel that, if followed, will help a woman wanting to accomplish that end.
Some reviewers of this book expressed disappointment with the focus on pornography and masterbation, but I bought it anyway. Adultery begins in the mind. With easy access to internet pornography, thoughts are turned into images. Sexual obsessions have mental, spiritual, and emotional ramifications. Each has to be acknowledged and addressed. This means going back to where it begins. Cut off a weed at its roots and it will die. This is a good book for women who are truly ready to forgive.
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In Discovering the Mind of Women husbands learn to understand their wives as Christ would. From this point they learn to respond to their wives in a consistent Christlike manner. A radically transformed and renewed marriage is the result.
Drawing from his own story and the stories of husbands whose marriages were dissolving, Ken Nair reveals major problems in life and marriage. After discussing the problems, he reveals relationship altering concepts which not only will revive a marriage, they will radiate throughout couple's lives as well.
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This book will change your life!.......2007-08-25
I have been married nearly 30 years. Three years ago my wife and I went through a Christian program for relationships and applied biblical principals that have transformed our marriage. This book Discovering the Mind of a Woman says what I have been living for the past three years. The bottom line is that God's principals work and this book explains these principals in a concise and biblical way. By letting go of my ego, and pride and getting rid of any sin in my life that God shows me I can die to my carnal nature and put on Christ every day -actually on a moment by moment basis. For me it was like having blinders taken off my eyes. By resolving bitterness and being Christlike by agape loving my wife like Christ loves the church I am experiencing a transformation in my relationships with God, my wife and our children. This is a must read for every man that is looking for a closer walk with God and strengthened relationships of all kinds.
groundbreaking and marriage-saving.......2007-07-27
My dh read this book and then asked me to read it. I found it a refreshing change from other books on marriage I've read. It is the only one I'm familiar with that actually holds men accountable for the success of their marriages and the emotional and spiritual health of their wives.
The criticisms mentioned in reviews here and elsewhere on the 'net are gross exaggerations and misrepresentations. It is worth noting that these reactionary comments were all made by men. If these husbands allow their wives to read the book, the women will find themselves amazed at their agreement with Mr. Nair's insights.
Most popular works on Christian marriage focus quite strongly on the wife's duty to reverence and obey her husband--this one stands out as proclaiming the balancing (and in my opinion, currently more needed) view of a husband's Christlike, sacrificial (Eph 5:25) love for his wife.
The proof, as they say, is in the pudding, and the true eternal value of Mr. Nair's work is evidenced by the happier husbands and wives who have benefitted from his book. Without a doubt, husbands who take his exhortations to heart will find deeper true intimacy with their wives on every level.
Discovering the Mind of a Woman.......2007-06-16
A must read for men seeking to be better husbands. It gave me insights into why my wife reacts the way she does to my words and actions. I plan on including this along with a few others like it to help divorce proof my small group.
Transformation.......2007-06-10
I have seen, in my own life and in the lives of others, the fruit of Ken Nair's teaching. The concepts within this book are not of Ken's own imagining, but are inspired; indeed, they can be found in the scriptures. "Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles?"
Matt 7:16
Not The Full Counsel of God.......2007-01-31
Though much of Nair's books contain good scriptural truth, he does not "declare unto you all the counsel of God." I have attended his seminar and his counsel is one-sided and his viewpoint of women is condescending, unrealistic, and unBiblical.
1. By implication, Ken teaches the only reason wives sin is because their husbands are not being Christlike.
2. In his books and presentations, Ken freely applies Scripture to the responsibilities of husbands, but does not apply them to wives or even address their Biblical responsibilities except to teach the only job a wife has is to berate the husband when he is not being Christlike.
3. Ken condemns husbands for their sins, but allows wives to freely indulge in those sins:
Ken says that women "are the historians of the family and always remember past offenses." Even though in 1 Corinthians 13:5 reliable translations tell us that true love does not keep a record of wrongs, Ken encourages wives to do the exact opposite.
Ken says, "outbursts of anger are the only way women can get men to listen," and yet, Ken encourages such anger ignoring James 1:20 and Ephesians 4:31-32 that such behavior is sin.
One walks away from Ken's books and seminars wondering if women are truly capable of sin unless their wayward husbands drive them to it.
4. Worse of all, Ken is guilty of only quoting partial verses. 1 Peter 3:7 says, "You husbands likewise, live with your wives in an understanding way, *as with a weaker vessel, since she is a woman; and grant her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.* The section between the asterisks is omitted from Ken's workbooks and presentations changing the emphasis of the verse. This is not the only verse Ken only partially quotes.
5. Ken knows he stands on shaky ground and manipulates those who question him by accusing them of being carnal and "fleshly."
The bottom line is that Ken is correct when he instructs Christian husbands "ought to love their wives as their own bodies." However, he does everybody a grave disservice when he fails to instruct a wife to "respect her husband."
Those struggling in dysfunctional marriages will do better with certified Christian marriage counselors or the writings of James Dobson or other qualified Christian counselors, but I cannot with clear conscience recommend Ken's books and his expensive seminar and his very costly, three-year-long discipleship course.
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The trials and pressures of modern life can make the prospect of a fulfilled, meaningful marriage seem impossible. In The Power of a Praying Wife, popular Christian author and speaker Stormie Omartian pinpoints common marital struggles and reveals the miraculous way that disciplined prayer can alleviate heartache and sustain unity. According to Omartian, a marriage's success depends upon "laying down all claim to power in and of yourself, and relying on God's power to transform you, your husband, your circumstances, and your marriage." Omartian attributes the success of her own 25-year marriage to dedicated prayer for every area--however specific--of her husband's life; from his finances and his work to his integrity and his temptations. Each chapter offers insight into areas that are especially important to men, followed by "power tools" (inspiring, topical Scripture) to guide one's prayer life and transform a woman's mind with regard to her husband. This practical read will encourage women to trust God to change their spouse, and undoubtedly refocus one's perspective on God's power rather than one's own personal predicament. --Jill Heatherly
Book Description
Omartian shares how wives can develop a deeper relationship with their husbands by praying for them. Packed with practical advice on praying for specific areas, including decision–making, fears, spiritual strength, and sexuality, this book helps women discover the fulfilling marriage God intended.
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An Excellent Book.......2007-10-04
An excellent purchase! The Power of a Praying Wife Deluxe Edition is a brilliant book written from the heart with Bible truths that I will read countless times and use forever. It inspires me to pray for my husband in many different areas that I might not have previously thought of. The sample prayers at the end of each chapter will be prayers I continually use in my relationship with the Lord and my relationship with my husband. Anyone seeking a growing marriage relationship and a growing relationship with God will be thrilled with this book!!
Powerful inspiration.......2007-09-21
This book provides some strong inspiration and guidance into how to pray and how your prayers are answered. A great buy well worth the price
A must read.......2007-08-25
This book is wonderful. I simply started reading with the purpose to be able to pray for my husband. But, this book showed me so much more. It is a must read for all wives, no matter how many years you are married.
Great prayer book for those in waiting.......2007-08-13
I am not married, and not committed, so I did not read this book because my marriage was in trouble. The book was recommended to me as a prayer book to pray for my husband to be. I am a firm beliver that God answers prayers; but I was not sure what to pray for in a husband since I dont have one. The book has 30 chapters, and I made it part of my daily devotion to pray for one thing every day. Reading through Stormie's struggles also gives insight of what to pray for in advance, that you would not experince it in marriage. For instance, Stormie talks about her husband not wanting to exercise, and that after prayers, she heard her husband on the treadmill one day. From this, I get insight to pray that God would give my husband an insight to be health conscious even before I meet him. I have recommended this book to a few of my friends, and would recommend it to one that wants a guide to pray for a husband, and especially when you least want to. Worth the time and money spent into it.
A Must Read.......2007-07-30
This book was a blessing for me and really encouraged me with my prayer life towards my husband. I highly recommend it to all married/engaged women. Establishing a good prayer life is critical in the realm of marriage. Excellent prayers included as well.
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Dr. Dobson's suggestions for marital happiness are interesting, practical, and humorous.
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Must read if you take your marriage seriously.......2007-03-15
I read this book 20 yrs. ago and it gave me insight into the differences between how men and women are affected by things. Now, as a minister, I give a copy to each couple I marry as part of our premarital counseling. It truly is a must read if you take your marriage seriously.
What Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew.......2007-01-12
It is all that it claims to be. A great resource for husbands AND wives.
Several informative bits if you're willing to look for them.......2006-01-25
I found this book by chance and decided to read it and I don't regret that I did. This book touches on many causes of depression in women based on a survey Dr. Dobson conducted. I think he did manage to hit the mark but his survey was very leading. He ask women to rank ten items on how much each one bothered them. The list included issues such as self esteem, sexual problems, problem with in-laws, problems with children, time constraints and busyness, hormones, and others. I feel if his survey was a little more open ended he might have found different results, but the problems he choose to address are things all married couples face at one time or another and are worth looking at.
This book is primarily written about stay at home mothers more than women in general. It does promote that women should be at home with their children, especially while their young. Even, Dr. Dobson admits that this situation isn't always possible in our society. This book doesn't state that the only place for women is in the home, but it does encourage those that choose that position. It stresses the importance of full-time mothers and seeks to restore some of the respect that has been lost for them.
After reading this I did gain some insight on women's emotional need to "vent", as my wife puts it, and how that can sometimes be caused by hormones. I also gained new perspective on how a non-involved father's behavior is like forcing his wife to be a single parent. There were a few other things I gained from this book, but to gain them I had to sift through pages of useless information, including a whole chapter on the benefits of hormone replacement therapy.
While I originally started reading this to gain insight on my wife I felt like the book turned from that and seemed most times to be written to women. Like I said, I gained a little. The information in the book is insightful, but it isn't anything I would call profound. To any prospective readers out there I would suggest looking for something else. Its a good book, just not great.
six dramatic audio cassettes.......2005-09-25
Audio Book edition of What Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew About Women. Dr. Dobson provides an empathetic look at barriers to marital harmony and then offers insightful and helpful suggestions for their resolution. Both men and women will find his discussion interesting, often humorous, and immensely practical in its application to everyday living.
6-Audio Cassette Tape Set in Clamshell Case. Tape one: God's Message to Christian Fathers.Tape 2: 10 sources of depression in women. tape 3: 1 courageous woman tape 4: sexual problems in marriage tape 5: menstrual & physiological problems tape 6: let God be God
Should be titled: "What James Dobson Thinks About Traditional Marriage Roles in a Man's World".......2005-08-19
This book is based on on the opinion of the author and a few male "experts". He bases his observations about women on his survey of a small group of church women who appear to represent the traditional role of the submissive stay at home wife and mother. He never gives any other background of who these women are. Dobson needs to wake up and realize that the traditional role of stay at home housewife is "history", even if the wife has chosen to stay at home and care for children. Unless you are married with "traditional" roles you will likely be turned off by this book. I was. Some of Dobson's references in this book are so weak, as he seeks to show how men and women are so different from each other. I believe that he has joined in the destuctive practice of seeking to look for how men and women are different rather than looking at our mutual needs like respect, emotional support, communication and loyalty. I gave this book one star because there are some parts that are interesting, it's just a shame that Dobson put this book out with the title it has. Women and men should read this book with a very critical mind, if at all!
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What can a husband do to improve his wife's life?" That's the question J. S. Salt asked more than a thousand wives ages 19-78. It's a simple question, yet the answers promise to do more for man/woman relations than chocolates, flowers and all the sweet nothings a man can muster. Honest, revealing, wise and funny, the answers are compiled in this priceless collection. This guide instructs, amuses and provokes as it finally answers the question that has dumbfounded men since Adam bit the apple: "What does a woman want?" Wives tell all: *
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Caution, whining ahead!!.......2005-03-03
This is a good book to keep in the bathroom magazine rack. Be careful and just read one or two pages at a sitting.
I made the mistake of reading most of the book at one time .... Whaa, whaa, whaa, blah, blah, blah.
When I finally threw it down I felt like I had been beaten up. Husbands are insensitive, brutish louts!
A lot of the quotes (complaints) are from divorced women, married 2 or 3 times.
Don't get me wrong, there's some good advise here, just ration it out slowly otherwise you might feel like singing the blues.
Guys, it's almost perfect!.......2004-04-23
As an Author, Coach, and Motivational Speaker I read alot of books about people, their motivations, and their relationships. How to Be the Almost Perfect Husband is a cliff notes version of all the relationship books for guys that are out there. Every guy should have a copy as a quick reference guide.
Each of the 100+ pages has a thought, principle, or practice that is short, sweet, and impactful. Not every one will work for every woman so you'll need to try a few out and see the results you get. Some that work for me in my relationship with my wife are:
** I know you want to help, but please don't jump in with a solution before I've finished telling you my problem. Sometimes all I need is a sympathetic ear. - Linda
** Always kiss me good morning and good night. - Penny
** Now and then, let her have a day to herself. It's a wonderful gift that won't cost you a thing. - Suzanna
** Praise your wife, even for the little things. - Susan
Husbands, buy a copy of this cool little book and take action. You'll be very happy with the results.
Fabulous!.......2003-07-21
What a great book! What every man should know - this is what women are really thinking and what they really need. As a couples therapist, these issues are dealt with everytime a couple comes into therapy. It is so important for men and women to understand one another. This book, and the companion book "How to be The Almost Perfect Wife" are great for couples to begin a dialogue into what they need from one another. Highly recommended!!
"The Woman Call It As The See It!.......2003-06-02
Wonderful--- very funny, poignant. In one sentence you can almost sum up the woman's relationship with her husband. What's wrong... and what is right.
I have suspected woman have had these thoughts about men since the beginning of time. J.S. Salt has done his homework. Every man will think his wife is talking about him.
A perfect gift.......2000-02-08
This and its companion book "How to be the perfect wife" are a great gift for Valentines day. They are fun, clever and easy to read. I wish I had read them sooner!
Book Description
Applying the concepts from his bestseller Sacred Marriage, Gold Medallion award-winning author Gary Thomas reveals what a man needs from his wife to become the husband she wants.
Customer Reviews:
Transformational!!!.......2007-09-28
Rather than me attempting to express the depth of insight and wisdom in this book, I decided that Gary Thomas speaking for himself would serve the purpose. The rest of this review comes straight from "Sacred Influence" to your screen :)
Quoted from "Sacred Influence" by Gary Thomas:
"How is God using your marriage to teach you how to love?
When you find yourself in a difficult marriage, or in a basically good marriage with one particular issue that grates on you, you can be sure that God wants to mature you as you face this problem with strength, courage, dignity, and biblical wisdom. God could of course speak the word and your problem would be solved- voila! But that's not how God usually works. He allows us to face issues that may terrify us and make us feel completely inadequate- he may even walk us through our deepest fears- so that we can grow in him.
The Bible is adamant about this. Spiritual growth takes place by persevering through difficult times
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The good news is that you and God are in this together. He knew, even before he created you, who you'd marry. And he will continue to give you the tools you need to become the person he's called you to be and to do the work he's created you to do within your current relationship. God would never leave you alone in any situation: "He will never leave you nor forsake you" (Deut 31:6). Even if you married a non-Christian, God's grace is sufficient for you. You cannot dig a hole so deep that it cuts you off from God's provision, care, and life-giving strength....
That's the message I want to communicate: you and God are in this together, and he's beginning your marriage makeover with you. Let him transform you as you seek to move your husband. While you may never achieve the results you have in mind, you can- without question- change the equation of your marriage by remodeling yourself. It begins with understanding, perhaps for the first time, the glory of being a godly woman and acting with the strength of a godly woman who understands she was created in the image of God, forgiven of her sins through the work of Jesus Christ, and gifted and empowered by God's Holy Spirit to live the life God has called her to live...
By courageously facing up to the challenges that every marriage faces, and by letting God change you in the process, something wonderful takes place- the formation of a new woman, fully alive to God, who can take the lessons she learns at home and apply them everywhere else.
'We can't guarantee success in this war, but we can do something better. We can deserve it.'"
Slightly stereotypical, but good.......2007-09-02
Gary Thomas is brave to write a book for wives from a male perspective and he does a fairly good job, in my opinion. There are spots where he makes generalizations and the examples of couples he uses are on the sweet and simple side, but he makes some good points. We are either making a good marriage by degrees or tearing one down by degrees. Our identity is in Christ, not our marital status.
I preferred "Sacred Marriage" over "Sacred Influence" by Thomas, but this one did make a good book for a discussion group of wives in my church.
Spectacular!.......2007-07-24
This is definitely worth reading! I wish every married (or soon to be married) woman would read this. Gary Thomas writes TO women, not just at them or for them. I felt very understood and was excited to alter my behavior during and after reading this.I also learned a ton about men in general...and i've been married for 14 years so i am not "new" at this. I am so encouraged! This isn't 5 easy steps to change your man, but a challenge and call to change yourself...the ONLY one you CAN change. The blessing that comes in your marriage from your personal growth is a bonus! It gives great advise from a man's point of view. Isn't that what we all need since we are so different from men? He is caring and respectful but plain and easy to understand. I hope you enjoy it as much as i have. Since i have read this and Sacred Marriage i have gone on to read Gary's other book The Glorious Pursuit...another winner!
Good book, very helpful; some drawbacks.......2007-06-09
I must first and formost admit that this is was a very difficult book for me to read. The TRUTH presented in it hit home like a tone of bricks! I really appreciate Mr. Thomas's point of view and I really like that this book is written from a man's point of view. I really feel like God has chosen me to do a good work in my husband's life. This book has helped me see how I have not been cooperating with God in being a Godly influence to my husband. Here's the thing: I'm not sure I would recommend this book for women who are being neglected or emotionally/physically abused by their husband. Women in this position are in a very delicate state and need to be built up in God and receive a stronger foundation in Him before being able to take a look at themselves throught the lens of this book. There are elements in this book that may inadvertently reinforce a woman's belief that her mistreatment is her doing and her responsibility. A woman's abuse at the hands of her husband is his choice and his choice ALONE. There are so many woman out there who need to be empowered FIRST, before one is able to pick apart their roles in their abusive relationships. There needs to be a greater awareness of this issue and it needs to be addressed more openly in books that deal with the woman's role in the marriage.
Although there was a chapter on husbands who are unsaved, it was not adequate. This kind of union has different needs from a christian union and I felt that this book did not provide this different perspective.
Another bad taste that was left in my mouth after all this was that in my readings of so many of the Christian lit on marriage (including this one), men seem to not be held accountable for ungodly behavior as much as women. Despite this very valuable point of view from Mr. Thomas, it lacks any kind of idea that men should be held accountable for the mistreatment of their wives.
I gave this book four stars because I feel like despite it's drawbacks it has helped me realize that by honoring my husband I'm really honoring God. It is God who requires me to be a good wife to my husband and that fact is paramount to whatever self-centered feelings I may have toward my marriage and my husband. This book defintely helps you to realize how you can be the wife God wants you to be.
The best of its kind!.......2007-02-26
Of all the marriage books written, Sacred Marriage (for couples) and Sacred Influence (for women) are the best and most realistic. After 30 years of marriage, these two books have significantly helped my marriage to reach a level of love, respect and contentment that none of the other counsels on marriage have. I've given these to both of my children to get them started off right. Even my mother said she wishes she'd had this book years ago.
Book Description
Wives, revolutionize your marriage! This unique book challenges women to cut through traditional misconceptions and explore the total Bible message on marriage. Covers everything from lifting up husbands in prayer to arranging romantic interludes.
Customer Reviews:
Romance is alive in marriage.......2006-08-24
I picked up this book in the supermarket. Things in my marriage are not bad or even troubled, just kind of flatlined. As soon as my husband saw this book title on my nightstand things began to change. We have definitely renewed the spark in our marriage as a result of reading this book.
I really enjoyed the author's writing style and particularly appreciated her ability to ground her major points in Scripture. I think that her presentation of "submission" was one of the best ones that I have read. Like most of the book it was very relevant and practical. I value the caveats that she has in the book for extreme situations in marriage like physical or emotional abuse. Finally, I also liked her romantic experiences that she detailed throughout the book. I think they again were very relevant and made me feel like it was something I could do. In fact, I have tried a few of them with great success. The only negative thing I can say about this book is it's "cheesy" title. That being said I still bought it!
Highly encouraging.......2004-01-15
This is an amazing book. I have really enjoyed all of it and it gives me hope that no matter what, my husband will make it. Debra White Smith talks about many important issues from a woman and wife's perspective. When she talks about submission it's from the point of view of the submitter, something that made listening to her easier. At the end of every chapter there is a romantic idea for something to do with or for your husband. The last chapter is full of even more ideas. At the end there are several devotional readings too. I would highly recomend this book to anyone. It would be especially good for someone going through some hard stuff in the marriage.
PRACTICAL, YET PASSIONATE.......2003-09-02
Practical and passionate, personal and poignant, simple and yet effective in dealing with our most complex relationship. Although married forty years, these ideas reminded me I still have a lot to learn about romancing my own husband. Provides tips for me, for him, for us. I'd recommend this book for wedding and anniversary gifts and as door prizes at a couple's retreat. I plan to keep a copy in my guest room.
Changed my marriage!!!!!!!!!.......2002-08-24
What a wonderful book. This book has changed my marriage. I will recommend it to everyone I know. Debra has written truth that I have yet to find anywhere else and I have done a lot of looking. My husband and I feel like newlyweds again. Thanks Debra White Smith!!!!!!!!!!!!
Solid, yet Typical Advice.......2002-07-15
This books is filled with lots of advice, although most everyone will already know what is being said. It certainly doesnt hurt to get a good reminder now and then though.
I found The Romantic's Guide, also written from a Christian perspective, to be a bit more unique, creative and inventive. And it has ideas for both men and women. Get them both.
Book Description
When a wife discovers her husband is entangled in sexual sin, she's devastated. This book offers proactive steps to help her heal.
Customer Reviews:
Not for those with a true sexual addiction.......2007-09-22
I purchased this book shortly after discovering that my husband had a sexual addiction. For me, the book was too basic. If you're upset because you found an "off color" magazine in your husband's nightstand, then this book is for you. If your partner has a true sex addiction, this book seems juvenile and rediculous.
Everything I wanted and More!.......2007-05-24
This book was AWESOME! Through all my pain I searched and compared every book out there side by side, on a tight budget I struggled to find the right one that pertained the most to me and my situation. Every book seemed to touch on different areas of the wife's pain, but this book was everything I wanted and more, not only that, but it just overall gave me the tools and knowledge I needed to work through my pain, as well as the gift of hope. To have something to reach for. It is a must read, I usually dedicate about a week to a book, but I just couldnt put it down, I read it cover to cover today, I recieved it last night!
A little tough love........2007-01-21
I thought this book would be one where forgiveness was better than judgement. Unfortunately, despite how well it is written, it throws the book at any offender who may so much as appear to be sneaking. I think that it really needs to focus on communication, wound healing, and loving so much the multitude of minor infractions are forgiven, and any few serious ones are dealt with the hope of reconciliation. Many adults, whether male or female, are growing up seriously in need of serious help. Divorce should never be the first or middle option..... it should be the last. That is tough love.
Not for wives of husbands who want to change.......2005-03-12
I read this book for a friend and it was nowhere near as good as Breaking Free (by Russ Willingham) that my husband and I read to address the same problem. From what I gathered, Marsha Means has never herself experienced sexual betrayal, just the fear of it. She has some basic info on codependency in the book, but I would argue that the wife chapter in Breaking Free is just as practical without all the scary stories with no resolution. If your husband wants to change, read Breaking Free together and leave this one on the shelf. You might find yourself loving your husband through his not-so-secret wars, not just living with him.
very helpful.......2005-01-03
I have found this book to be very helpful in overcoming my husbands sexual addiction and affairs. I have referred back to it for guidence a lot in the past year. I highly suggest it to spouses who are struggling with a sexual addict.
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