Welcome Home, Forever Child: A Celebration of Children Adopted as Toddlers, Preschoolers, and Beyond
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • Perfect for any older-child adoption
  • Well Done!
  • Heartwarming and Endearing
  • C.Botello, Adoptive Support Services, Family Stress Center
  • For Adoptive Families of All Colors
Welcome Home, Forever Child: A Celebration of Children Adopted as Toddlers, Preschoolers, and Beyond
Christine Mitchell
Manufacturer: AuthorHouse
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Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 1425963048

Book Description

Finally..a book that genuinely celebrates a young child joining their forever family past infancy. With its touching message of love and reassurance, and whimsical illustrations, Welcome Home, Forever Child is sure to be cherished by children and parents alike. While best suited to children ages two to eight, this gem will undoubtedly be enjoyed by older children as well. Most children's adoption books reflect infant adoptions, and may not be appropriate for the older child who spent their early years in foster care or an orphanage. Welcome Home, Forever Child is a much needed book that social workers and therapists will want to recommend to families who adopted their child past the age of two. The book helps parents reassure children of their permanent place in the new family, and of how much they are wanted and loved. It will also make a very special and meaningful keepsake gift for a child upon joining his or her new family, upon finalizing the adoption, or upon the anniversary of either event. READ WHAT TOP ADOPTION AND PARENTING EXPERTS ARE SAYING ABOUT WELCOME HOME, FOREVER CHILD: "I truly enjoyed reading this book. Children will love the pictures and delightful rhymes. This book helps adopted kids to celebrate life and activities in their adoptive home while providing a framework to understand their infancy in another place. This book will be useful in helping children bond to adoptive parents." - Foster Cline, M.D., co-author with Jim Fay - Parenting with Love and Logic and Parenting Teens with Love and Logic "A great way to help young children to understand what adoption and forever means in their lives. Parents and children will love to see the many firsts they will share while grieving the ones they missed. Fun illustrations and the rhyming cadence are sure to delight the preschool set." - Regina M. Kupecky, LSW - co-author with Gregory Keck - Adopting the Hurt Child and Parenting the Hurt Child "This book provides reassurance to child

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Perfect for any older-child adoption.......2007-08-29

The book Welcome Home, Forever Child is a wonderful children's book! This one is different from the children's books I've reviewed in the past, as this one is written particularly for children who are NOT adopted as infants. There is a whole different set of issues and questions that go along with a child who is adopted at an older age. They may remember experiences shared with birth and/or foster families, and have questions about how long they will be with their "new" family.

If you've adopted a toddler, preschooler, or older child, then this book is a MUST for your family! Author Christine Mitchell shares a story of love and the meaning of adoption in rhyming words that children will love to hear and easily understand. It will help create a bond with adoptive parents, and explain to the child what "forever" means.

The illustrations are so sweet. The author has used cats as the characters in the story. I love this because it makes the book appropriate for any type of adoptive situation- transracial, etc. The book starts out by talking about all the important milestones that may have been missed by the adoptive parents, but goes on to primarily focus on all the "firsts" that are to come, with a promise of being there to share in them. I am sure this book will be one that you will read over and over again with your child(ren).

5 out of 5 stars Well Done! .......2007-08-21

Christine Mitchell successfully communicates a much needed message, on a child's level, that both the adopted toddler and the parent need reinforced...the many firsts that they will share. Great job!


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5 out of 5 stars Heartwarming and Endearing.......2007-04-05

I am a kindergarten teacher and loved this book from the first moment I read it! I was so touched by the message of love, hope, permanence and a lifetime of memories that an adopted child would finally find with his/her new adoptive family. I bought this book for a friend who is in the process of adopting two older children.

5 out of 5 stars C.Botello, Adoptive Support Services, Family Stress Center.......2007-03-06

Review sent in :Christine's book has captured into words and pictures the often hard to mention past of an older adopted child in a very warm and accepting manner. Acknowledging an adoptive child's beginnings is very important for the basis of self-esteem in the present and basic trust in the future. I love the simple yet straight forward manner Christine handles the loss of not being in their child's life from the beginning. As a professional in adoption support groups, I highly recommend this book. It will inspire both child and parent to work towards a healthy, honest and loving relationship. Cathy Botello, Adoptive Family Support Services, FSC

5 out of 5 stars For Adoptive Families of All Colors.......2007-02-24

I love that this much-needed book works equally well for transracial families because each member of the cat family depicted is a different color and pattern. My daughter (adopted as a baby) was very moved by it and requested that I read it again and again. I give it a standing ovation!
Beginning Your Christian Life: Welcome Home
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    Beginning Your Christian Life: Welcome Home

    Manufacturer: Billy Graham Evangelistic Association
    ProductGroup: Book
    Binding: Paperback

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    Fix It And Enjoy It Cookbook
    Average customer rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
    • I love it!
    • Easy to read cookbook
    • Every kitchen should have one
    • Always good
    • Wonderful!
    Fix It And Enjoy It Cookbook
    Phyllis Pellman Good
    Manufacturer: Good Books
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    ASIN: 1561485268

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    Meet the Fix-It and Enjoy-It Cookbook, an irresistible collection of more than 675 All-Purpose, Welcome-Home Recipes. Fix-It and Enjoy-It Cookbook offers choice recipes for stove-top and oven cooking. Note this: o Fix-It and Enjoy-It Cookbook is a "cousin" of the extraordinarily popular Fix-It and Forget-It Cookbook. o Fix-It and Enjoy-It Cookbook is by New York Times bestselling author Phyllis Pellman Good, lead author of the Fix-It and Forget-It Cookbook series (more than 6.5 million copies already sold!). Fix-It and Enjoy-It Cookbook brings you: o delicious food for everyday that is easy to prepare; o recipes which use ingredients that are already in most cooks' cupboards; o recipes which are not intimidating; the skills they require are simple and basic; o nutritional food which your family and friends of all ages will heartily enjoy! This wonderful collection is packed with more than 675 recipes. Each includes the amount of Prep Time and Cooking Time needed. Each includes clear, step-by-step procedures for making the dish. Fix-It and Enjoy-It Cookbook delivers recipes that are easy and pleasing-for the cook-and all who gather around the table. This is good everyday food! Persons who have loved the Fix-It and Forget-It slow cooker series will also love the all-purpose Fix-It and Enjoy-It Cookbook!

    Customer Reviews:

    5 out of 5 stars I love it!.......2007-07-28

    This is a great cookbook for the "normal" everyday cook. I have tried 7 receipes and each has been delicious! I have had all the ingredients at home (didn't have to run for something special). I have many cookbooks and this is one of my favorites! Enjoy!

    4 out of 5 stars Easy to read cookbook.......2007-03-25

    Great recipes, that are easy to follow. Easy enough that if you have never cooked before you could use this book and have the meals come out right.

    5 out of 5 stars Every kitchen should have one.......2007-01-10

    This is a wonderful reference, whether you're brand new to cooking or like myself, have been around the kitchen for 50 years. Most all of the recipes use ingredients that you normally have in your cupboards. When I get a new cookbook, I read them like a novel and check the ones I want to try. There's so many checks, I don't know where to start!

    5 out of 5 stars Always good.......2006-09-07

    Lots of recips for every day cooking. Easy to make and always delicate. Now I am often baking American Pies.

    4 out of 5 stars Wonderful!.......2006-07-20

    If your grandma was a great cook and wrote a cookbook, it would look a little something like this book--great for beginners and advanced cooks alike. It does not tell you how to cook, but gives a full variety of recipes that are easy and scrumptious looking, as well as crowd pleasing.

    The layout clean and organized and does not startle the reader with cutesy or bright, hard-to-read fonts. Since this cookbook has recipes collected from different people, it reminds me of Southern women getting together on a Sunday afternoon to swap their treasured meal cards.

    Fix-It and Enjoy-It gives recipes for just about everything from Texas caviar to homemade ice cream and breads. My mouth literally watered when I looked at all 675 of these recipes. The only thing I did not like was, there were no pictures.

    For the price to eat out at a restaurant, one can have this book jammed pack with meal that will satisfy even picky palates. This book is really a gem among the rocks. Each recipe has an ingredient list that is uncomplicated with easy-to-find ingredients.

    Phyllis Pellman Good humors her readers with a personal anecdote. I cannot believe that the author of so many cookbooks, including the great Fix-it and Forget-it series, once did not like or know how to cook!

    Armchair Interviews says: The author is very encouraging and says, "If I can cook, you can too."




    A Life That Says Welcome: Simple Ways to Open Your Heart & Home to Others
    Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
    • So many ideas!
    • Laughs and encouragement
    • An excellent selection of tips, tricks, and techniques for receiving guests with warmth and spreading joy.
    • A great, practical guide to hospitality and home management
    • A good and helpful read!
    A Life That Says Welcome: Simple Ways to Open Your Heart & Home to Others
    Karen Ehman
    Manufacturer: Revell
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    ASIN: 0800731395
    Release Date: 2006-10-01

    Book Description

    The thought of hosting a dinner party or even having a friend over for coffee is enough to give some women flashbacks of lopsided cakes or doomed casseroles from home economics class. But opening up your home to others doesn't have to be fancy or frightening or cost a fortune, says Karen Ehman. In A Life That Says Welcome, she offers a practical, painless (no crafting or cooking aptitude required) course on hospitality. It helps busy women open up their hearts in order to open up their homes. Full of tips, ideas, recipes, to-dos, and how-tos, A Life That Says Welcome shows readers that opening up their homes is less scary and less work than they might think.

    Customer Reviews:

    5 out of 5 stars So many ideas!.......2007-02-06

    I liked the title of this book when I saw it highlighted through the MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) website. Karen Ehman has written a book that is true to life and offers many great ideas. She covers a gamut of topics, but doesn't rush through anything. It is entertaining and heartfelt. I am very glad I chose this book.

    5 out of 5 stars Laughs and encouragement.......2007-01-16

    I love this book. I have 3 small children, a husband, and a hyper dog. We want to entertain more and hope that people feel welcome in our home. I found encouragement on every page of this book, and many chuckles through-out. The humor hidden within the pages always left me coming back for more.

    5 out of 5 stars An excellent selection of tips, tricks, and techniques for receiving guests with warmth and spreading joy........2007-01-06

    Written by Hearts at Home speaker Karen Ehman, A Life That Says Welcome: Simple Ways to Open Your Heart & Home to Others is a practical introduction to the art of hospitality. Ad Ehrman explains, the secret of hospitality isn't primarily about how one's home is decorated or maintained, or what dishes are cooked; it's making one's guests feel welcome, and comes straight from the heart. Material matters are of course discussed as well, including the basics of battling clutter, dustballs and dirt; decorating on a shoestring budget; tips for hospitality on the road; and much more. As a devoted Christian, Ehman also shows how to open not only one's home to guests but also how to open one's life and soul as an avenue for God's love. An excellent selection of tips, tricks, and techniques for receiving guests with warmth and spreading joy.

    5 out of 5 stars A great, practical guide to hospitality and home management.......2006-11-15

    I loved reading this book. I gathered encouragement and practical tips on every page. The author's personal stories and humor make this a book that is fun to pick up and hard to put down. The book motivated me to plan ahead for cooking, invite others over more often, and do simple things such as lighting a candle at dinner to make family time feel more special. She gives great tips for cleaning that actually made me itch to pull out my cleansers and tackle my housecleaning! I would recommend this book to anyone, old or young, who likes practical suggestions shared in a warm, conversational tone. Tea, anyone?

    4 out of 5 stars A good and helpful read!.......2006-10-13

    Hospitality is on the decline, in my opinion. We're busy and don't focus on the art of entertaining like we used to do. I admit I don't have the gift of hospitality. After reading A Life That Says Welcome, I realize that it's not about what I do, but the condition of my heart, rather than my home.

    There are tips and techniques to open your heart and home to unexpected guests, use the space you have and maximize it, decorate with what you have and within your budget, efficient entertaining, 'put out' good food that won't consume your time or stretch your budget or challenge your talent--and so much more.

    Peppered with stories and biblical references, Ehman offers up a challenge to let your heart be the home of hospitality.

    Armchair Interviews says: It's a good read.




    Welcome Home
    Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
    • Making Your Living Space a Refreshing Home
    • Beginning of a wonderful friendship--
    • looking for good tips
    • Beautiful book for a beautiful home.
    • Excellent - a must read for those who love their home!
    Welcome Home
    Emilie Barnes , and Anne Christian Buchanan
    Manufacturer: Harvest House Pub
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    Binding: Hardcover

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    Customer Reviews:

    5 out of 5 stars Making Your Living Space a Refreshing Home.......2007-04-27

    EXCELLENT! This book was exactly what I needed! I'm not gifted with a homemaking instinct. Emilie packed in this book hundreds of practical ideas that I could use to transform my house into a home and to make it a refuge for my entire family. She gives tips on decorating, organizing, hospitality, nurturing your family through your home, celebrating, creating a respite from the stresses of the world, and more. Easy to read, and easy to pick up and put down, the book is divided into very small, easily digestible sections.

    Her decorating style isn't mine, but her tips are so universal that it doesn't matter. She gives concrete examples of how to incorporate her advice regardless of whether you live in your custom designed dream home, a small apartment, or anything in between. She invites you into her home through her stories and pictures, and through that I can just imagine what it must be like to be a guest in her home. Definitely something I would like to model!

    This book would be a perfect gift to a first-time home owner. I really recommend it if you, like me, are seeking to add beauty, love and hospitality to your home. Thank you so much, Emilie, for addressing exactly what I have been seeking advice on for quite some time!

    5 out of 5 stars Beginning of a wonderful friendship--.......2005-02-19

    I found this book at a bookstore on sale and I love country decorating so bought it. That was about seven years ago and have worn the book out almost , so buying a new one today. Since that booksale I have bought more than thirteen books of Emilie's and have enjoyed every one of them ,some more than others but never the less I am still a big fan of Emilie's. Have learned so much from her books in decorating, cooking, and worshiping our Lord. As others have said she is a classy lady and so much of her goes into her books----Try it---you will not be disappointed-----

    4 out of 5 stars looking for good tips.......2003-04-25

    Well I checked this book out from the library. I kept renewing it so many times. I told my husband I want to buy it. That way I can highlight certain areas for me to back and look at again and again. I'm trying to get my husband to read it also. Because I'm trying to get him to understand the "open door" policy I want for my house. And Emilie describes it so well.

    4 out of 5 stars Beautiful book for a beautiful home........2000-12-27

    I put this book on last year's wish list and kept it there hoping someone would take the hint and buy it for me. My mother got it for me for Christmas this year, and I can tell it will be much used and appreciated. I chanced across this book, but at my time in life when my children are almost raised and I am almost finished with my schooling and embarking on my science education /bioethics career I am finding I want to make my home more orgaqnized and more homey for me to come home to. I am not a natural homemaker with an eye to placement and beautiful things. My mother is, as is Emilie Barnes. Some of us need a little help because our talents lie elsewhere. This book can be viewed for the way the Barnes have decorated their homes, and the writing is geared toward giving ideas for how to run a house more lovingly and cleanly. When I have time to do these things, I want to do them right. This book is loaded with ideas, plans, and future thoughts for making an individual house a home.

    My only problem with this book is the one I have with Martha Stewart also...some of us just do not have the time or money to put that much effort into these things. Some of it is jealousy I suspect, on my part at the relative ease with which these people are able to use such unbelieveably unfair talents. Some of it is the emphasis that some of us choose to put on other parts of our lives. I want a beautiful home, but I want to be realistic too. Sometimes it seems as if realism does not enter into the thoughts of the author of this book. It is an outstanding book from an outstanding homemaker. Karen Sadler, Science Education, University of Pittsburgh

    5 out of 5 stars Excellent - a must read for those who love their home!.......1999-07-01

    As always Emilie Barnes has once again written a wonderful book! Welcome Home reminds us that as women it is our responsibility and privelege to create a refuge for our family and loved ones. Welcome Home encourages one to create your home into a place of beauty, where our loved ones can be nourished, encouraged and find peace and acceptance.The artwork is beautiful and suggestions for entertaining are excellent! This book would be a wonderful gift for a new bride, house warming gift or a special gift just for you! Thank you Emilie for all the wonderful books you have blessed us with. God Bless!
    Open Heart, Open Home: The Hospitable Way to Make Others Feel Welcome & Wanted
    Average customer rating: 3.5 out of 5 stars
    • This book got me back on track.
    • Disappointing
    Open Heart, Open Home: The Hospitable Way to Make Others Feel Welcome & Wanted
    Karen Burton Mains
    Manufacturer: InterVarsity Press
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    Binding: Paperback

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    ASIN: 083082300X

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    Can a simple dinner party for the neighbors change the world?Karen Mains says, "Yes!"And in Open Heart, Open Home she shows how. In this classic on Christian hospitality, Karen Mains steps far beyond how-to-entertain hints to explore a biblical and spiritual approach to using your home to care for others. This approach to hospitality can literally transform the fabric of your community and your world.If you labor under the illusion that hospitality requires Martha Stewart-like abilities, then Mains will free you from a load of guilt! Instead, she offers fresh and inspiring ideas for using your own resources to serve rather than to impress with new "opening the door" activities in each chapter. You will discover how the Holy Spirit can work in and through you to make others feel welcome and wanted.Whether you are a business executive or a homemaker, a professional minister or a layperson, a seasoned entertainer or an entertaining klutz, you will find here the encouragement and skills you need to reach out with the gospel through daily acts of acceptance, belonging and love.

    Customer Reviews:

    4 out of 5 stars This book got me back on track........2005-09-14

    In my earlier, mostly single, years--a bit younger than the author was when she wrote this book--I practiced a very open hospitality. What made me order this book, after being aware of it for 25 years, is that I was experiencing a current crisis in my own hospitality as a middle-aged woman with a family, grand-family and large community of friends. I didn't like that I had so 'tightened up' with my home. An introduction from the author written in this 1997 revised edition put my current feelings in perspective. She points out that we go through "cycles and seasons in our life of hospitality." Whew, there was hope. I was experiencing a cycle, but I was spiraling down with it. I recognized negative attitudes working against my heart of hospitality that I had to confront. Karen Mains helped me to pinpoint them, in not always so gentle a way. I had internal work to do, which is never pleasant. I have to admit that my house will probably never be as open as it was when I was in my 30s, but I am becoming more relaxed about welcoming guests--particularly unexpected ones--with open arms. The part of the book that helped me the most was to understand the difference between 'entertaining' and 'hospitality'. Over the years, as I increased in creativity in the home and out, much of my relaxed hospitality took on the pressure of 'entertaining'. Mains aptly points out the difference in a way that leads to the type of change I was looking for: being guest centered (serving) instead of self centered (impressing). The book is filled with myriad change-worthy points, both practical and spiritual, that will meet many women exactly 'where they live' to help produce the type of welcome they want their homes to extend.

    3 out of 5 stars Disappointing.......2005-07-18

    I had read positive reviews of this book on a number of sites, but I was disappointed. There is very little practical, specific information in the book. There's a lot of vague talk about Biblical reasons to become more hospitable, and different types of hospitality (from welcoming home family members to fostering children), but very little specific advice about how to carry out this hospitality.

    I could sum up everything I got out of this book in five pages or less.
    Welcome Home: A Guide for Adoptive, Foster, and Treatment Foster Parents
    Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
    • A Must-Have for Adopted Parents
    Welcome Home: A Guide for Adoptive, Foster, and Treatment Foster Parents
    Christopher J. Alexander
    Manufacturer: Mountain West Publishing
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    ASIN: 0975414402
    Release Date: 2005-07-01

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    Welcome Home provides parents of foster and adopted children with practical skills for raising children of all ages.

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    5 out of 5 stars A Must-Have for Adopted Parents .......2007-02-11

    This is truly a unique book in the adoption category. While most books on the subject offer good advice, much of what they share falls in the area of common sense. This book, on the other hand, takes us into the real world experience of adopted kids and their parents. The chapter on attachment is the best I've come across, and the author tackles those hard-to-deal with topics (sexual behavior in children; children and psychiatric medications; sibling relationships; talking with kids about being adopted; choosing the right therapist for your child) in a sensitive and direct manner. Even though the book is geared to parents, I really believe teachers and counselors who work with adopted children need to read this also.
    Welcome Home: Following Your Soul's Journey Home
    Average customer rating: 4 out of 5 stars
    • exploring the unknown existence.
    Welcome Home: Following Your Soul's Journey Home
    Sandra Ingerman
    Manufacturer: Harper San Francisco
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    Sandra Ingerman's deeply moveing debut, Soul Retrieval, captivated readers with its introduction of shamanic journeying, an ancient tradition of healing.With the characteristic warmth, passion, and authenticcity that have earned her worldwide recognition, Ingerman now continues to share her lifework with Welcome Home, an empowering action plan for creating a more positive future by truly letting go of blame and guilt.

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    4 out of 5 stars exploring the unknown existence........2005-09-19

    This book is trying to light up the shady corridors of the unknown,when the soul is starting out for its journey back to what we perceive in our concious mind as non existence,just to make us sure that it's realy reunited to its true source travelling trough the light..
    Welcome to Lizard Motel: Children, Stories, and the Mystery of Making Things Up, A Memoir
    Average customer rating: 4 out of 5 stars
    • Why kids hate those YA novels they're assigned in school
    • An absorbing and thoughtful critique of "young adult" books
    • The first half of this book is powerful. Buy it for this reason.
    • I'm so glad someone's saying it.
    • An elegantly written, beautifully reasoned book
    Welcome to Lizard Motel: Children, Stories, and the Mystery of Making Things Up, A Memoir
    Barbara Feinberg
    Manufacturer: Beacon Press
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    Binding: Hardcover

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    Unsettled by the fact that her twelve-year-old son, an ardent reader, hated most of the books assigned to him in school, Barbara Feinberg set out to discover just what kids are reading these days. Much to her dismay, she found that novels about abandonment, kidnapping, abuse, and more have become standard fare in many middle school classrooms.

    Pre-adolescents, these novels seem to suggest, ought to be confronted in fiction with "real life problems" straight on, with no magical dimension and limited imaginative scope. In fact, the child characters in these books often must face their stark circumstances nearly alone, without adult shelter. You have only yourself, these novels seem to say. Adults cannot help you; they are often the source of your troubles.

    Weaving literary analysis with memoir, told in a playful, elegiacal style, Welcome to Lizard Motel sets its inquiry into books and stories in the context of an unfolding narrative of family life. And as the narrative takes on a novel-like velocity of its own, stories become the lens through which Feinberg reflects on our own notions of childhood—both observed and remembered, our culture's rendering of childhood, and the surprising disconnect between the two.

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    5 out of 5 stars Why kids hate those YA novels they're assigned in school .......2005-10-21

    What a remarkable book, one with a fresh perspective toward the young adult novels that are assigned in middle school English classes. Barbara Feinberg's central question is, when and why did books for preteens get so grim? In an extended essay mixed with personal reflection, Feinberg examines the YA "problem novel," the books that more or less began with Paul Zindel's "The Pigman" and which some librarians call "Doom and Gloom" books. The "child" protagonists in these novels face abuse, abandonment, incest, trauma, loss, and lots of death, as if the child needs to suffer and someone needs to die to make the child grow up, accept reality, and be a resilient, self-reliant survivor. In the meantime, most adults in these books are useless for helping the kids to cope, and imagination and play are completely sacrificed, as the kids in these books are expected to grow out of such hindrances.

    As the founder of a long-running children's program in New York called Story Shop, Feinberg knows and talks to real children and gives them places for play and imagination. In the book she also writes extensively about her children, 12-year-old Alex (the victim of this dismal school summer reading) and Clair, age 7. This gal knows and loves kids, and her book is an impassioned defense of childhood from an adult who has worked through her own issues.

    I heard a sermon several years ago by the Rev. Mary Harrington, a Unitarian Universalist minister and mother at the time of similar-aged children to Feinberg's, talking about environmental education programs for young children. In standard environmental education programs, children were given the message that the world was going to hell in a handbasket and they needed to save it. Interestingly, these children did NOT grow up into environmentalist adults. Instead, they became environmentally apathetic adults. The children who became environmentalists as adults were taken into nature and allowed to enjoy it, look at bugs, take hikes, NOT scared to death and given adult responsibilities to shoulder. As Rev. Harrington pointed out, children can't even make their parents recycle, much less can they save the world, and it is our duty as adults to take those actions, not foist it onto vulnerable, helpless children.

    Feinberg makes a similar point about the spate of young adult problem novels currently on schools' required reading lists. By and large, 12-year-olds hate them when they are required to read and analyze them in school. These books -- the same books they could love if they found them on their own at age 15 -- are depressing and demoralizing. Who are they trying to teach with these fake "child" narrators, who have an adult perspective in the guise of a child? Is it the adult's "inner child," a wish to protect our lost child selves by giving our own "past" selves a context for the suffering of life, and also trying to toughen ourselves by toughening up the kids? If so, do the books they are required to read help the actual children, right now, or are they taking childhood away to reassure overwhelmed adults? I remember hating "The Red Pony" in 8th grade. They assigned this Steinbeck novel because it has a young protagonist and the pony dies. So it wasn't until years later that I tried Steinbeck again and was surprised to find that it wasn't all just Faulknerian trauma; why didn't they give us the fun Steinbeck novels to read, like "Cannery Row"?

    Feinberg's sacred cows include the whole list of Newbery winners. I work in an independent bookstore, and when a 12-year-old comes in asking for a good book, I would never recommend "Bridge to Terabithia," although author Katherine Paterson writes so beautifully; the book is just too stark and depressing, with a bleak and devastating surprise ending that gives only one chapter for resolution.

    The writing in "Lizard Motel" is lovely as well. Memoir is certainly more popular right now than educational theory for preteen readers, so I understand why she wrote the book this way. Teachers, librarians, booksellers, YA authors and readers, and parents should all consider Feinberg's perspective. Memoir writers can also take inspiration from her skillful weaving of personal history and essay.

    I'm rather sorry I've given 5-star book reviews so often, because when a book like this comes along, one wants to put in extra-credit stars! But this does have the distinction of being my 100th review for Amazon.com!

    5 out of 5 stars An absorbing and thoughtful critique of "young adult" books.......2005-02-21

    I loved this book. Last year, I read most of the highly touted books for young adults and was shocked at how vacuous and grim they were. Every teenager, it seems, is angry, lives in a broken home, encounters death and suicide, wants to run away. No flights of fancy, just rage and rebellion and ugly "reality."

    Feinberg saw what I saw, and she has written a terrific expose of the shallowness and commercialism of these phony books. She was not intimidated by their awards from Newberry and the American Library Association.

    She also takes a well-grounded poke at the pretentiousness of the Lucy Calkins memoir-writing workshop, which squashes children's imaginations and mechanizes their writing. Brave woman to challenge every shibboleth of the schools of education!

    Maybe if more teachers and parents read her book, future generations of children would be spared the agony of being compelled to read this dreary stuff and to follow the Calkins formula for writing their life story at the age of 7.

    3 out of 5 stars The first half of this book is powerful. Buy it for this reason........2004-12-09

    Feinberg deserves praise for bringing forth the troubling emphasis that current curriculums intended for the adolescent age, have placed on the "problem novel". Yet she is not dogmatic enough in her important argument. Instead we are led off track in the 2nd half of the book on a self absorbed meandering with no clear cut themes... that ends up focusing on her daughter's need for several surgeries relating to ear infections. How did we get here?! To presume a connection between the 2 parts of this book, one would need to do as the subtitle suggests and truly "make things up". Nonetheless, the assertions in the 1rst half, as well as the footnotes, make those parts of the book quite a compelling read. Its worth the price of the book for the sake of those first arguments. Then save yourself time and confusion by skimming or avoiding entirely, the author's self indulgent off-topic stuff in the 2nd half.

    5 out of 5 stars I'm so glad someone's saying it........2004-11-08

    As a children's author myself, I'm delighted to find someone suggesting in a popular book what many of us children's authors have long realized: Problem novels are not written or published for children at all, but for educators and librarians, without whom most of those books would never survive.

    I would add that a surprising number of librarians dislike and disapprove of fantasy, and would love to wean children from imaginative works. As such, they are well-meaning but misguided opponents of childhood development, which depends on fantasy and imagination for proper unfoldment. This is the prejudice that kept The Wizard of Oz out of public libraries for decades.

    What's more, the "reality" of these problem novels is collectively far from realistic. Authors have actually been advised NOT to write novels about families with both a mother and a father. Only broken families allowed!

    Before reading this book, I was not familiar with the writing programs of Lucy Calkins, but I can only say I'm glad I never found myself in their clutches, or I might never have become an author.

    5 out of 5 stars An elegantly written, beautifully reasoned book.......2004-10-21

    Feinberg has written an extraordinary work that makes use of her literary and emotional gifts as well as her intellectual ones. The basic premise of this small, powerful book is that literature matters; stories that we read and stories we create have tremendous meaning, and the books we hand down to our children express our cultural and personal values. Feinberg sees fiction and metaphor as crucial to the healthy development of children through their pubescent years, and dislikes the current trend in the schools toward memoir writing and the reading of issue-oriented "problem novels." A superbly reasoned and elegant book.
    Breaking all the Rules: How to Rent Your Vacation Home: A New, Innovative "Rent by Owner" Tool for Preparing, Managing, Advertising,Tracking, Organizing & Maintaining Your Rental & Free Welcome Book
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    Breaking all the Rules: How to Rent Your Vacation Home: A New, Innovative "Rent by Owner" Tool for Preparing, Managing, Advertising,Tracking, Organizing & Maintaining Your Rental & Free Welcome Book
    Marie R. Ferguson
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    Release Date: 2007-09-07

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    Buy Today and get your Free "Welcome Book" An Organized- Instructional Booklet which Contains Vital Information - Custom designed for your rental property. Send an email to(info@howtorentvacationhomes.com) with your Amazon order number to receive your free Welcome Book. "BREAKING ALL THE RULES: HOW TO RENT YOUR VACATION HOME" has Everything You Need To Know for Preparing, Managing, Pricing, Tracking and Organizing Your Rentals, Advertising, Handling Inquiries, Screening Potential Renters, and Maintaining your Vacation Rental Property. -Turn Your Vacation Home into a Valuable Asset -Create Most Desirable Vacation Rental in your Area -Get Higher Rental Income -Less Vacancies -Qualified Tenants -Guaranteed to learn how to make the most of your vacation rental. -All rental questions answered by Marie at info@howtorentvacationhomes.com For More Information visit http://www.howtorentvacationhomes.com

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    5 out of 5 stars A "Must Read" for Vacation Homeowners!.......2007-07-18

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